3. Spend time together.
Henríquez advised that serious Catholic couples and married couples “can leave aside the logic of the world a little,” which pushes consumerism and materialism on Valentine’s Day, and “enter into the logic of God, to offer each other the most valuable thing they have, which is their own time.”
He pointed out that this is what Jesus Christ did with his apostles and it is what the Church also asks us to do during Lent: spend more time with Jesus and get closer to him, to accompany him during his passion, death, and resurrection. “It is an expression of love to spend time with each other,” Henríquez said.
4. Project yourself into the future.
Just as Ash Wednesday is a call to prepare ourselves to spend the 40 days in conversion and penance until the Sacred Triduum, so a Catholic couple can take advantage of this day to “renew the mutual promise they made to each other, to look toward what is to come and what they are going to build together,” the seminarian said.
5. Do something together for others.
Finally, Henríquez noted that “love is about giving,” and there is no better way to start Lent than with a work of charity, especially if it is done as a couple, “such as going to Mass together and offering it for whoever needs it, praying the rosary for some intention, donate the money that they were going to use to buy a gift and buy basic necessities for needy families.”
“These things leave their mark, especially during the engagement period, and it is the true spirit of Lent,” he added.
Henríquez concluded by asking that on Feb. 14, priests, as well as men and women religious, also in some way observe both days since they have given their lives to the Lord out of love.
This story was first published by ACI Prensa, CNA’s Spanish-language news partner. It has been translated and adapted by CNA.
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